2- PHONE FIRST, THEN MEET FACE TO FACT - Set up at least one or two phone conversations and use these talks as a way to get to know the person better.

3- PLAY IT SAFE ON YOUR FIRST DATE - Always set up your first date at a crowded place in daylight. Make it a group date also if that makes you feel better.

4- DON'T PUT TOO MUCH PRESSURE ON YOURSELF - OR YOUR DATE - Keep it short, that way if it goes well you can plan on a longer date next time, and if its not so good you dont have to deal with it for too long.

5- MAKE A GOOD IMPRESSION - Be cautious but also act to impress your date. Have fun, smile. If you're having a good time, you appear more attractive!